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Priya Motiani

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Paying Forward Through Your Wedding Is The Next Big Thing. Up For It?

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  •  November 28, 2015


All those who are about to get married, or are organizing someone else’s marriage, pay attention. Reading these 15 ways of paying forward will make you want to voluntarily shun the idea of big fat weddings.

Imagine how beautiful it would be to have the happiness of uniting with your love coupled with the joy of doing something good for someone. I think that would be wonderful! Which is why, I am going to keep these facts in mind and try to execute them in the next wedding I attend. Read, and get inspired.

  1. Choose Earth-Friendly Invitations

Opt for recycled paper, and look for a printer who actively works to minimize his or her carbon footprint while making your paper products.

  1. Cut Back on Extra Inserts

Take your earth conscious attitude to invites one step further when considering the inserts. And consider RSVP postcards instead of cards that need envelopes. A bonus way to be extra green: Use e-vites for less formal wedding events, like showers and engagement parties.

  1. Add a Call to Action on Your Invites

On her wedding invitations, Florida bride Leigh McManus asked her guests to gift someone else with a random act of kindness. Leading up to her wedding (and even after), she was inundated with messages from loved ones as they took her request to heart. Whether donating cat food to an animal shelter or just supplying their doorman with some frozen yogurt, McManus’ friends had a blast sharing smiles.

  1. Incorporate Your Favorite Charity in an Actionable Way

Love animals? Simply Social Event Planning shared how one animal-friendly couple went all out for their four-legged friends – they replaced the standard table numbers with pictures of adoptable dogs, with information on the back on where guests can find the pups if they’re interested in taking one home. “Rather than spend money on something wasteful just because it’s traditional, we would rather see the money be used toward something good and that lasts forever,” shared the bride. “You can’t put a price tag on the rewards from having a pet to love and love you back. But we can put a price tag on helping them find their forever homes.”

  1. Give a Friend or Family Member His Big Break

Have a talented friend who’s been photographing weddings on the side while keeping up a full-time job to pay the bills? Just because she hasn’t taken the leap into full-time photography doesn’t mean she can’t serve up amazing snaps; you might just be the encouragement she needs. Same goes for a DJ. Chances are, we all have that one cousin or nephew who just needs someone to believe in them. Just make sure they’re responsible, professional and that their work lives up to the standards you want for your wedding.

  1. Opt for Locally-Grown, In-Season Food

However, if being green and eating local is important to you, take this into consideration when booking your venue, and look for a place that will either follow your request or allow you to bring in an outside caterer.

  1. Know Where Your Flowers Come From

Don’t have your heart set on a particular flower type? Shop local and support a farmer in your community instead of importing high-priced blooms. You might even be able to pick your own flowers, which could serve as a wonderful bonding experience with your soon-to-be spouse. Or, give your bouquet a sentimental touch by snipping a few roses from your mom’s bushes — every little bit helps.

  1. Don’t Toss Your Flowers

You probably spent a lot of time picking out your flower arrangements — but where will those flowers end up in a few hours? Suggest your guests take those gorgeous centerpieces to a loved one who’s in the hospital, or arrange for a friend to drop them all off at a nearby nursing home.

Also, consider using potted plants instead of cut flowers. These living, breathing arrangements can easily find a second purpose after the big day. Consider opting for seasonal plants you can find at your local gardening center.

  1. Make the Most of Your Leftovers

Elaborate cocktail hours filled with appetizer stations, five-course plated meals, and overflowing dessert displays are a recipe for tremendous food waste. Work with a caterer who will donate leftovers to a shelter, or ask if you can do the honors and pass out food to the homeless in your community – all it takes is a few takeout boxes and a handful of faithful friends to help you pack up and deliver the food.

  1. Give Up Your Dress

So many brides save their wedding gowns in case their future daughters want to wear it one day. But how many of us actually ended up wearing our mother’s gown? Sure, you may have played dress-up in it as a kid (or admired it safely from afar in its preserved box), but when preparing for your big day, you decided to go with something that matches today’s aesthetic. Instead of hoarding your own lace and taffeta, consider passing it along to a thrift store.

  1. Put Your Wedding Favor Budget to Better Use

Wedding planner Jutta Lammerts shared a way to honor your guests and give back to the community: “I would definitely encourage couples to find a cause they can relate to – be it ‘Wish Upon a Wedding’ (free wedding celebrations for terminally ill couples), animal welfare organizations (being a dedicated animal lover myself), or maybe current disaster relief efforts,” Lammerts said. “To me, it would be important that the couple is really convinced of that specific charitable purpose, whichever it may be.” From there, you can explain your donation on an elegant notecard at each place setting. If you’re supporting a bigger cause, like breast cancer, consider spending a few dollars on ribbon and stick pins and create pink or yellow ribbons for guests to wear proudly.

  1. Choose Meaningful Favors

Don’t want to send your guests away empty-handed? Consider a purposeful wedding favor. Chelsea Dillon, of Aspen’s Gold Leaf Event Design, shared details of one couple’s commitment to the forest: “We made little burlap sacks sweetly tagged with each guest’s name. Peeking out of the burlap bag, you would find a tiny pine tree in rich soil, ready to be planted. Not only is this extremely unique, it’s a thoughtful, personal gesture that can be remembered and appreciated for years to come.”

  1. Ask for Donations in Lieu of Gifts

Spread the word through your wedding website (or your close friends and family) that you’d love for your guests to make a donation to charity instead. Suggest a personal favorite – or let them choose their own, and ask them to send a note to you about why it’s important to them. This is also a great way for you to learn about new charitable causes!

  1. Make Those Wedding Party Gifts Count, Too

Altruette designs and sells bracelet charms with specific charities in mind, then donates part of the proceeds back to that charity. They even have wedding sets that let you pick the perfect charm for each bridesmaid. You could give each of your bridesmaids the same charm, based on your charitable interests. Or consider personalizing the charms to each of your besties — give your fierce feminist the “Vital Voices” wishbone and the “African Wildlife” charm to your favorite elephant enthusiast.

  1. Make Your Honeymoon Worthwhile

After months and months of planning your wedding, your honeymoon is a much-deserved vacation. But it can also be a great way to help out a struggling community. Tack on a few extra days to help out on a Habitat For Humanity build or see what you can do to help out the area surrounding that resort.

Remember, grasping even few of them will help make a difference… to the nature, or in someone’s life!


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